GOOD ENERGY HAS BOUNDARIES
A little chemistry.
A lot of respect.
You control the connection.
Hot or Flop is for adults 18 and older. Dating discovery is optional. Turn it off in Edit profile to hide your dating details from other members. Your birthday is private; only your age is shown. Use a city or broad area, never an address.
A like is an invitation. A match is mutual.
Conversations open when both people like each other. You can block a profile to stop access and messages, or report a profile or photo for review. Blocking removes the mutual connection. You never owe anyone a reply.
Keep personal and financial information private.
Do not send money, gift cards, passwords, verification codes, or private documents to a match. Be cautious of pressure to move off the app or an urgent story involving money. If you meet, choose a public place, tell someone you trust, and arrange your own transportation.
Respect the person behind the profile.
Rate the look respectfully. Harassment, impersonation, underage accounts, sexual content, and sharing another person's private information are not welcome. Photos are reviewed before they appear; review can make mistakes, so use Report when something needs attention.
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